Anonymous asked: I can't figure out why people aren't understanding this. If you're a trans woman, and you lived as a man for the first 20 years of your life, you were socialized male. End of story. There is no wiggle room so people's feelings don't get hurt, or so they don't have to bear the shame of male privilege. This is ridiculous. Neither trans men, nor trans women, MAGICALLY obtain the lived experience of their innate gender once they come out and/or transition. And you all KNOW THAT.